I love holidays. All of them. Any reason to celebrate and par-tay is great with me. This Valentine's Day season has been a fun one. I tried to do something simple (but special and fun) for the kids and Greg for the 14 days of L-O-V-E leading up to the BIG DAY. Cupid even struck Greg with his arrow of love and he had a few fun surprises for me, which is always nice. It's a good thing we had a 14 day celebration, because Valentine's Day itself turned out to be a bit anticlimactic.
I'm very guilty of being the "Martha" in the "Mary/Martha" story from the New Testamant. (Just in case you don't remember, Martha is the one who was so busy trying to make everything perfect that she almost missed the good stuff and the opportunity to sit at the feet of the Savior and learn from Him.) I really wanted Valentine's Day to be a special day for our family. I wanted to make a fun breakfast, color some Valentine cards and make treats with Garrett to deliver to his friends, run a few errands in town, make a lovely Valentine's Day dinner for the family, get the kids to bed a bit early, and enjoy the evening with Greg. It was going to be a tight schedule to fit it all in, but I thought I could do it. (This is always my fatal mistake and my overestimating of my time and abilities drives my dear sweetheart CRAZY.)
Needless to say, it didn't really fit into my plans for a perfect day when Garrett wasn't feeling well with a yucky cough and could have cared less about any of the fun stuff I had planned for us. It also just happened to be the day a friend needed help and I had to spend several of my "precious" hours giving last-minute rides and shuttling back and forth. (Why don't people ever need me on the days I have nothing to do and would be thrilled to help???) So, I was a bit behind schedule, but was probably still going to be able to pull it off. I was cruising along in the car and feeling a bit stressed about everything I still had to do, when I noticed a car pulled off the side of the road. I slowed down to see if everything was okay and saw a woman in the ditch holding a balloon and a bouquet of flowers. She was sitting next to a little white cross with her head in her hands.
I felt instantly guilty and realized how much I had totally missed the mark on this day that was supposed to be so special. I was so busy trying to do trivial little things I thought were important that I had totally lost sight of what really mattered. I should have been grateful to be able to help a friend and I am truly blessed to have all 3 of favorite Valentines (1 big and 2 cute little ones) alive and well. My attitude instantly changed and my stress level went from "a 10 to about a 2" (Greg and I always say this to each other when one of us is worked up about something and needs to calm down). I vowed to just enjoy the rest of the day with my sweethearts and forget about the stupid things that didn't matter. (Like making heart-shaped ice cubes and napkins.)
I thoroughly enjoyed the rest of the day and was totally fine when a very apologetic Greg called to tell me that despite his best efforts, he was going to have to work late. (Sometimes it stinks to be your own boss when you are building a house for somebody and it's Valentine's Day and the cabinets are coming in the morning and you have to help make sure the tile gets done before the cabinets get there. Bummer.) Abby was ready for bed early, so Garrett, Ruben, and I enjoyed a lovely dinner with lots of pink, red, and heart-shapes. I got Garrett to bed and enjoyed a nice bubble bath while reading a sweet little romance novel. (Hey, you might as well read about somebody else's love story if your sweetheart is stuck laying tile at 10 PM on February 14, right?)
It's all good though, because my dear Valentine promised he would make it up to me with a fantastic date this weekend. And since he always keeps his word when he is digging himself out of the doghouse, I can hardly wait. :)
And because posts without pictures aren't nearly as fun, here is my little cupcake in her V-Day best. (Thanks to Kami and Kyle for the darling jacket and leggings and Emily for the hand-me-down skirt and shoes. Nothing like a free outfit--especially when it's this cute.)
(And a big NO THANKS to Abby for not cooperating while her mom was trying to get a picture to document the 2nd Valentine's Day of her sweet little life.)